Choice

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Hey everyone! It’s definitely been a long time since my last post, I had to choose between various topics to write on and when I pondered on it, I realised it is a choice that make the difference between who I am and who I actually want to be.

“Life is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice.”
~ Ka

Let me get this straight, your life is almost dependent on the choices you make solely. Why stress it out on it then? Because, most of the time, we tend to leave it on the so called fate or well on our family and friends. I didn’t start out this blog just because someone asked me to, I realised there are many who feel so lost, they just need one fine article that can get their life back on track. I made a choice then and there to start this blog. You made a choice reading this. You could have done anything else but there’s a reason you are here. One is because you chose to and it is not just another coincidence because secondly, you might truly end up understanding what you actually came here for.

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A lot of people still believe life is won by luck. Well, my friend, luck favours the bold. Only when you choose to move will you be able to move. If you want to wait for a miracle, there are a lot of natural ways you could move, like earthquakes. I may be a bit harsh, but get it in your mind. If you want to get something, go and work for it.

I’ve been over it many times, there would be people who would speak behind your back all the time, why do you have to bother about them?  They are not going to feed you when you are broke.

“Even if the whole world is telling you to move. It is your duty to plant yourself like a tree, to look them in the eye and say, ‘No, you move.'”
~ Sharon Carter, Agent 13 (Captain America: Civil War)

But life does not come with a guide or map, does it? So what if the choices you made were wrong, it is not like you’ll end the time. There are worse things than your wrong choice, but believe me none of your choices are worthless. You end up learning a lot of things from the wrong choices than from the right ones.

So, don’t get used to “what to do” kind of stuff, and just figure out and follow your passion. Life will be much better when you make a choice and make sure your choice makes a difference. It’s always upto you, but sometimes, it’s better to choose wisely.

Do let me know what your views on “Choice” are in the comments section below and don’t forget to like, share this post if you liked it and be sure to subscribe if you don’t want to miss out any of our future posts.

Will be back with another motivational post until then, LIVE yOUR LIFE!

You.

“You are a wonderful being. You are the reason that someone smiles. There is nothing that you cannot achieve. So, trust yourself and do what you love to.”
~Amith Chhabria.

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This date, marks one year of this blog. I started this blog to bring out the best in people, but the more people I reached out to, the more I saw them running away from themselves and that’s when I realized, a person can be motivated only when they are ready.

There were many reasons behind this. Some didn’t trust themselves. Some underestimated themselves. Some were jealous of others. Some were filled with fear. Some hated themselves. Some were lost. Some were clueless and what not.

Let me be honest here, everyone in the world has been through this. No one is perfect. Doubts can be cleared. Fear can be conquered. Hate can be faded. The lost can always find a new place to live.

Life is short, but to live it short is not a good idea. If you feel that you are losing, just look around, there would be millions like you. But if you continue your path towards success, you would see a lesser crowd, all continuing their journey to be awesome and when you finally reach the top, you will feel why you had to doubt yourself all along. The reason there are less people at top is just because the rest of the crowd feel that they are unworthy of the position and never try. Some may hate the hard work, but ask any artist who loves to paint, about hard work, and you’ll know that hard work for them is a happy time because it’s their passion. They might need smart work too. If you follow your passion, your work might not seem that hard after all.

No wonder Swami Vivekananda, “You are the creator of your own destiny.”

Your life lies in your very own hands. One cannot expect the egg to hatch as soon as it is laid and it will only hatch when the creature inside is ready. Motivation works the same way. No amount of guidance will work if the person inside is not ready.

If you want help and you are not getting it, then you are not ready for it yet. You’ll get help when you are ready for it. You’ll ask for it.

If nothing is going according to your plan, then it is going according the Lord’s plan. And trust me, His plans are way more exciting than yours.

Never give up. Giving up is easy. That is why people who think they have lost everything, give up. But in reality, if you have nothing to lose, then what’s the use of giving up? That’s why winners never give up.

“Winners never quit and Quitters never win.”
~Vince Lombardi

Be mindful of your thoughts. They define you. Your thoughts may be the reason why you are what you are and may be that is why you are here. To be yourself.

If you are who you are just because someone has asked you to be what you are now, then I feel bad for you. If you really want to be something amazing, just be yourself. Be you because there is no other person in this world like you, and I know you. You are one amazing friend. You are beautiful. You are the best person I’ve connected with and you are here to win and let me tell you one thing: You have the power to be the best.

As Uncle Ben or Benjamin “Ben” Parker once said:
“With great power, comes great responsibility.”

“What it is that you have to do, and what it is that you have to be, that, your soul will tell. Who will be on your side, and who will be against you, that, the time will tell.
But who you are, and what you ought to be, that, you will tell.”
~Amith Chhabria.

Oh and yes, as the topic suggests, I dedicate this post to you, and if you still doubt yourself, just visit this page back and remember that we love you. Will be back with another electrifying post, until then, just LIVE yOUR LIFE.

“There are mysteries to the universe we were never meant to solve. But who we are and why we are here, are not among them. Those answers, we carry inside.”
~Optimus Prime.

Never Quit!!

“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is to try just one more time!!”
~ Thomas A. Edison

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Hey People!! Just imagine, you’re going to your dream destination (let’s name it Destination D) and you start from Destination A. You keep going, and all of a sudden you stop at C, and you realise that the fuel tank is empty. What would you do at this situation?
a) Return home (which is really far)
b) Sit there and cry.
c) Go and fill the tank and keep moving forward and live your life-long dream..

The best thing to do would be to fill your tank and keep moving.

The same thing applies in one’s life too. You might not know how close you are to success. It doesn’t hurt if you face obstacles during your journey. That’s life. You cannot succeed everytime. Edison is the best example I could give. The more you fail, the more you learn.

“You have not succeeded, if you haven’t failed even once”

Every thing would have a positive and negative effect. If you only look at the negative side of everything, how will you even think of moving forward? If you don’t have the faith in a thing, how would you even work with it? If you think that something you really wanted to do as a child, reqiures huge money and time and hard work or anyother excuse you could make of, how do even you expect to live your life? Don’t blame it to the fate!! Only when you give some of your effort, you would go ahead. And when you reached the destination, you would look back and think why you were such a stubborn person and unwilling to follow your dreams. Only when you follow your dreams, you would be happily successful. If you follow other’s dream, you would be successfully happy! It’s your life. You must choose what you want to be in life!!

“If you look for the light in evrything, you would often find it. But if you look for the dark, that is all you will ever see.”
~ Uncle Iroh.

You must be consciously and subconsciously aware of the life you want!
Because:

“Your mind can be your greatest ally or your worst enemy!”
~ Katara from Legend of Korra

Everything in life depends on what you think, how you react to every situation and your determination.

“Winners never quit and quitters never win.”
~ Vince Lombardi.

You might feel deterred to fear of failure. You might feel failing would make you some devil of the society.
This is the thing what the current education system has gifted us. It doesn’t let us make mistakes. Only when you make mistakes, you would learn from it. Instead we are punished for making mistakes.
No man is perfect.
Life is a game, sometimes one wins and the rest lose, but there’s always a second chance. You learn new things every time.

“If you live long enough, you’ll make mistakes. But if you learn from them, you’ll be a better person. It’s how you handle adversity, not how it affects you. The main thing is never quit, never quit, never quit”
~ William J. Clinton

A scientist doesn’t discover anything in his first attempt, it takes him hundreds of experiments to do it.

“Even in despair, you must never give in to the situation and only that refers to inner strength!”
~ Uncle Iroh.

Never abandon hope.

Never give up.

Never quit.

I have a small poem on this:

An unending journey

I was abandoned,
I was tortured,
Only because I wanted to do something of my own.
So, I left my home.
People hated me,
Only because I wanted to be free.
I couldn’t bear this and I started a small journey..

I travelled places and learned about different cultures,
And that got rid of my prior tortures.
People said that was the end, but I did not hear.
People wanted me to fear,
And wanted me to shed a tear,
But I didn’t bother and chased my destiny,
And all this made it an amazing journey..

I trusted the Lord and trusted my soul,
To achieve my life-long goal.
The child in me was about to die,
But I dared to keep it alive.
Everything I did bothered the society,
But I just did my work patiently.
There were many things I learned from the selfless people I met,
Spreading peace and living happily that was what the life meant.
They taught me one thing and asked me to spread it to every clan,
Life is a simple maze,
People who feared have made it a big race.
Live a life in a way no one else can,
Because Time and Tide wait for no man.
This is why I left my home,
An unending journey, only that could have made my life whole.
I thank the Lord for giving me the freedom,
Without that, those messages, I wouldn’t have learned.
An unending journey is a gift which can change your life,
Because the lessons you learn, would help you to thrive.
Never quit avid never give up,
That’s what you learn, if you wish to learn.
Take up an unending journey to follow your dreams,
Because, life is not what it may seem!

~ Amith Chhabria.

P.S.: The guy who started Victora’s Secret sold his company and jumped off a bridge before it became Victoria’s secret!
I’ll be back with another amazing post, until then follow your dreams and never give up and just LIVE yOUR LIFE!