Believe: Not Judge

Caution: Before you read this post, make sure you have an empty mind and before you judge this post, make sure you read it till the end. Better yet, just cherish it.

I think it has been a weird mistake to have people with their own music careers going on and judging people because when they’re too critical, it affects them. They don’t want to be that honest, because they need to keep their appearance up.
~Neil Patrick Harris

10

Remember the time, when you were a kid?

The tensions and worries you had were senseless to an adult.

What if I told you, the worries you have now are, well, senseless to everyone around you?

Every person has his/her own worries consuming them. They might check on you now and then if they love you or care for you, but that doesn’t mean you have to stick to their support.

You have your own life, why does it suddenly become important for a human being to care for someone or look into some other person’s life.

One could say, “Everything is connected.” So, it becomes a need then. Wanting to know every part of others life has become a need today, which has led to the high success rate of social networking websites.¬† We, as a human have habituated with giving more interest on others’ life, status that we have forgotten about us.

I’m not asking you to be selfish. I just ask you, if you are so concerned about others life, why do you spread hatred when they achieve or at least try to achieve something.

Stop judging their works if they did not ask you to do so. Some may have habituated in ignoring others opinion, but there are tons of people who have given up their hopes, their dreams just because of the people who judged them.

Success in life takes time. Happiness can occur anytime, but it is unto you. Start spreading love. If you can’t support them, then at least, get out of their way.

You may be a professional in what you do, but never underestimate and tease a beginner for his/her lousy performance. You were a beginner once too.

People in grief need someone to walk with them without judging them.
~Gail Sheehy

It’s all about the perspective. One really cannot determine what the other person has gone through to get where he/she is or the reason one can’t do that work. It could have been a piece of cake for you to do that work. It could be a piece of cake for an athlete to run a 100m, but that becomes a hectic task for a guy whose health is bad.

Stop judging the capabilities of individuals and start believing in them. We got here through team work not through individual hatred.

Start living. Stop hating.

Peace.

People are always judging you based on where you’re from, where you went to school, how you look, how you talk. But at the end of the day, you’re going to have to look into the mirror and accept who you are. It’s all about being authentic.
~Andre Carson

Will be back with another amazing post until then spread love and let me know your views on this in the comment section below and just LIVE yOUR LIFE and Believe!

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Change

The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.

~Alan Watts

Change helps you in discovering yourself.

One of the most overwhelming concept in philosophy has been Change.

What is change in the first place?

Basically, it is a difference in the state of anything and anyone on various situations. I feel it is just the transformation or development from time to time.

So, is it really necessary?

Well, it is.

If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
~Wayne Dyer

Why is Change necessary?

This is one thought that runs throughout my mind most of the time and when i come to think of it, it is actually simple.

Nature, itself, is constantly changing. Like the wind, it changes directions, we as a human. The “highly developed species” on the planet has to make sure they are in tune with the nature.

Everyday, since the dawn of time, we have made millions of mistakes. Well, as a human we are bound to making mistakes, but that doesn’t mean we should give up. If our ancestors had given up, there wouldn’t have been any sign of humans after the “Ice Age”.

We learned to adopt the nature and slowly tried to abuse it for our own good. Well, the result we are seeing today is not surprising. We are now aware of the mistakes we did, but that doesn’t mean we give up now. We should learn to come together and fight it.

Similarly, life may knock you down many times, and sometimes it will knock you down so hard, you will have lost the courage to get back up. But then is when you’ll need yourself the most. Break your own limits.

You might have done so many wrong things in life and you asked none, you feared none, you did it for your sake. You may not be aware of it but you forced yourself to do it even though someone else asked you do it. For once, if you could give a chance for yourself to change and listen to yourself to do good stuff, that is ultimately good for you and ignore the people who try to speak against it.

Your soul, it has seen many things, it has experienced many things. Giving it the same thing will lose the ultimate purpose of life. Exploring new things. Discovering new places. Experiencing the life like never before.

It may be in case of your job, education or business too. Following a single strategy throughout the lifetime may not be much helpful. Bringing changes can get you pumped up or can excite you.

To be honest, change is unavoidable. You are born, it is natural that you will grow. You may give up on your life, but your life will never give up on you! Because, it is the death, starvation, failure are the things we fear from. You want to fear from something, fear from fear. It is the most toxic thing there ever is. Trust yourself. Trust your dreams, your instincts. That ultimate change can get you inner peace. Because, if you won’t change, the world around you definitely will. The most things that stay¬†adamant, end up destroying themselves the most. It is the river that is stagnant and the most insects breed there. Whereas, ocean is forever flowing, look it’s beauty!

To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.

~Winston Churchill

Thank you so much for sticking with me, though this post took so much time, I’ll make sure the next one will be out sooner. Till then, hope this post may help you any possible way. Let me know your views on Change in the comments section below. Will be back with yet another amazing post, until then, just LIVE yOUR LIFE!