Love Yourself.

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Have you ever been knocked down so hard,
You were afraid to get back up?
Have you ever been betrayed so bad,
You were afraid to trust ever again?
Have you ever been backstabbed so harsh,
You were afraid to look back on them?
Have you ever lost something you love,
You despised to hear the word “love” ever again?
Have you ever been tortured like hell,
You had to give up who you were?
But, that is life.
There would be millions like you who suffer the same amount of pain you feel, but their cause is different. Every day you would wake up in the hope that today, everything will change, everything will be alright, idly sitting there and waiting for a miracle to happen, but guess what, it won’t.
Life is tough, it will squeeze you before you can taste what stuff out there feels like, only because you can learn to appreciate it.
I do believe miracles happen, but it ain’t gonna happen to you unless you fight for yourselves and for what you truly believe in.
If life were easy, then every other guy would just live life for oneself and that is not good. Because, every species on this planet, including you and this whole planet, matters, everything matters. A complete stranger, writing this post to you could be a reason why you matter.
I don’t know how hard/amazing your life has been, but let me tell you, you have a lot more to see.
You being alive, is a greatest gift you can ever receive, because believe me, even if the whole world gives up on you, God will always be there for you. Your parents will stand for you.
You are still alive and no matter how stupid this may seem, I believe in it:

“When everyone is against you; that is when you’ll need yourself the most.”

Love yourself to the point where you forget what love is because:

“You are your own worst enemy and your own greatest ally.”

You want to fight out in the world for what’s right, I bet that is not good, because first fight for what’s right inside you. Fight for the good in you and the good is what you shall see.
Love yourself and give yourself a good time.

“Peace outside can only be achieved when there’s peace inside.”

I’ve stressed a lot about this but you cannot be successful if “YOU” are not satisfied.
You matter.
So love yourself and love your life and eventually you’ll LIVE yOUR LIFE.
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Believe: Not Judge

Caution: Before you read this post, make sure you have an empty mind and before you judge this post, make sure you read it till the end. Better yet, just cherish it.

I think it has been a weird mistake to have people with their own music careers going on and judging people because when they’re too critical, it affects them. They don’t want to be that honest, because they need to keep their appearance up.
~Neil Patrick Harris

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Remember the time, when you were a kid?

The tensions and worries you had were senseless to an adult.

What if I told you, the worries you have now are, well, senseless to everyone around you?

Every person has his/her own worries consuming them. They might check on you now and then if they love you or care for you, but that doesn’t mean you have to stick to their support.

You have your own life, why does it suddenly become important for a human being to care for someone or look into some other person’s life.

One could say, “Everything is connected.” So, it becomes a need then. Wanting to know every part of others life has become a need today, which has led to the high success rate of social networking websites.  We, as a human have habituated with giving more interest on others’ life, status that we have forgotten about us.

I’m not asking you to be selfish. I just ask you, if you are so concerned about others life, why do you spread hatred when they achieve or at least try to achieve something.

Stop judging their works if they did not ask you to do so. Some may have habituated in ignoring others opinion, but there are tons of people who have given up their hopes, their dreams just because of the people who judged them.

Success in life takes time. Happiness can occur anytime, but it is unto you. Start spreading love. If you can’t support them, then at least, get out of their way.

You may be a professional in what you do, but never underestimate and tease a beginner for his/her lousy performance. You were a beginner once too.

People in grief need someone to walk with them without judging them.
~Gail Sheehy

It’s all about the perspective. One really cannot determine what the other person has gone through to get where he/she is or the reason one can’t do that work. It could have been a piece of cake for you to do that work. It could be a piece of cake for an athlete to run a 100m, but that becomes a hectic task for a guy whose health is bad.

Stop judging the capabilities of individuals and start believing in them. We got here through team work not through individual hatred.

Start living. Stop hating.

Peace.

People are always judging you based on where you’re from, where you went to school, how you look, how you talk. But at the end of the day, you’re going to have to look into the mirror and accept who you are. It’s all about being authentic.
~Andre Carson

Will be back with another amazing post until then spread love and let me know your views on this in the comment section below and just LIVE yOUR LIFE and Believe!

Change

The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.

~Alan Watts

Change helps you in discovering yourself.

One of the most overwhelming concept in philosophy has been Change.

What is change in the first place?

Basically, it is a difference in the state of anything and anyone on various situations. I feel it is just the transformation or development from time to time.

So, is it really necessary?

Well, it is.

If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
~Wayne Dyer

Why is Change necessary?

This is one thought that runs throughout my mind most of the time and when i come to think of it, it is actually simple.

Nature, itself, is constantly changing. Like the wind, it changes directions, we as a human. The “highly developed species” on the planet has to make sure they are in tune with the nature.

Everyday, since the dawn of time, we have made millions of mistakes. Well, as a human we are bound to making mistakes, but that doesn’t mean we should give up. If our ancestors had given up, there wouldn’t have been any sign of humans after the “Ice Age”.

We learned to adopt the nature and slowly tried to abuse it for our own good. Well, the result we are seeing today is not surprising. We are now aware of the mistakes we did, but that doesn’t mean we give up now. We should learn to come together and fight it.

Similarly, life may knock you down many times, and sometimes it will knock you down so hard, you will have lost the courage to get back up. But then is when you’ll need yourself the most. Break your own limits.

You might have done so many wrong things in life and you asked none, you feared none, you did it for your sake. You may not be aware of it but you forced yourself to do it even though someone else asked you do it. For once, if you could give a chance for yourself to change and listen to yourself to do good stuff, that is ultimately good for you and ignore the people who try to speak against it.

Your soul, it has seen many things, it has experienced many things. Giving it the same thing will lose the ultimate purpose of life. Exploring new things. Discovering new places. Experiencing the life like never before.

It may be in case of your job, education or business too. Following a single strategy throughout the lifetime may not be much helpful. Bringing changes can get you pumped up or can excite you.

To be honest, change is unavoidable. You are born, it is natural that you will grow. You may give up on your life, but your life will never give up on you! Because, it is the death, starvation, failure are the things we fear from. You want to fear from something, fear from fear. It is the most toxic thing there ever is. Trust yourself. Trust your dreams, your instincts. That ultimate change can get you inner peace. Because, if you won’t change, the world around you definitely will. The most things that stay adamant, end up destroying themselves the most. It is the river that is stagnant and the most insects breed there. Whereas, ocean is forever flowing, look it’s beauty!

To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.

~Winston Churchill

Thank you so much for sticking with me, though this post took so much time, I’ll make sure the next one will be out sooner. Till then, hope this post may help you any possible way. Let me know your views on Change in the comments section below. Will be back with yet another amazing post, until then, just LIVE yOUR LIFE!

Being an Artist

Being an artist is such a bore, people say. But is it?

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No, not at all. We artists have our own world and there is a reason for it and it is simple. It’s the people around us. Today there are many artists struggling to make a name out there.
Why are they struggling?
There are tons of new pieces of art that is created everyday. Among them, few are famous. The rest, their art just fades away in no time.
Why does that happen?
As I said, it’s the company they keep.
To all those artists,
You are amazing. Yes, you are no matter what others tell you so. You are a messenger from the universe. You carry a message and that message comes from your soul to your masterpiece.
You can’t give up just because your friends, family, relatives or even a neighbour tells it is a waste of time.
Being an introvert myself, I’ve faced a lot. There are only a handful of friends who want to see my writing. The rest, they don’t bother with what I do. They have their own world.
I don’t have the rights to judge their lives, but reality, it’s just an illusion. So, why go after something that isn’t even real. Find your true friends and well, make sure you abandon the rest. We introverts are a paradox. We may love your company but we wouldn’t want to be with you for a longer period of time. Although we remain aloof, we can be the best friend to a person who really connects with us, but why? Because, we have no one except ourselves. So, a piece of advice to the friends of such introverts. Please, encourage their art, spread it. Get them in your group but make sure there isn’t much crowd because they get bored easily there. Help them feel what it means to be alive. But, make sure you have them some space, they’d appreciate it.
Being an extrovert is just as tough. An extrovert can’t stay at the same place for a longer period of time. Their adventure is the key to their art. They want to explore, discover places which are beautiful not only to look at but also to feel. They portray the best piece from the soul that was there, not the eyes that saw it.
It’s really difficult in this age to just go on an adventure. We have commitments. We have responsibilities. We have duties. I really don’t know what to say but the best thing would be do what is right. Previously, I mentioned, reality is an illusion, if you really don’t bother about it and just want to explore then, go ahead, only your soul has the right to stop you. But let me get this straight, don’t lose your respect and character during this.
People who are friends with such people, please find joy in what they do, they’ll love it. Adventure is an amazing sport for them, so, head out with them for a journey for a day or two. You’ll learn a lot since life is all about the journey. But, trust them. Trust their instincts if they are confident about it.

I really don’t know, how I covered psychology in this, but being an artist is really tough. But that’s the key. If art were easy, it would not be art. On the contrary, art is easy if you trust your soul. Let it flow. Journey is going to be tough, don’t give up. Start it and everything will fall into place.

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If you want to be loved, then do what sells. If you want to be a legend, do what your soul tells.

I hope you learned something from this. Do let me know what your views are on this in the comment section below. I’ll be back with another inspiring post, until then LIVE yOUR LIFE.

P.S.: You can also read one of my previous post where I conducted a survey what would happen if there wasn’t art and why it is necessary from the link below:
Life without Art!

Choice

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Hey everyone! It’s definitely been a long time since my last post, I had to choose between various topics to write on and when I pondered on it, I realised it is a choice that make the difference between who I am and who I actually want to be.

“Life is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice.”
~ Ka

Let me get this straight, your life is almost dependent on the choices you make solely. Why stress it out on it then? Because, most of the time, we tend to leave it on the so called fate or well on our family and friends. I didn’t start out this blog just because someone asked me to, I realised there are many who feel so lost, they just need one fine article that can get their life back on track. I made a choice then and there to start this blog. You made a choice reading this. You could have done anything else but there’s a reason you are here. One is because you chose to and it is not just another coincidence because secondly, you might truly end up understanding what you actually came here for.

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A lot of people still believe life is won by luck. Well, my friend, luck favours the bold. Only when you choose to move will you be able to move. If you want to wait for a miracle, there are a lot of natural ways you could move, like earthquakes. I may be a bit harsh, but get it in your mind. If you want to get something, go and work for it.

I’ve been over it many times, there would be people who would speak behind your back all the time, why do you have to bother about them?  They are not going to feed you when you are broke.

“Even if the whole world is telling you to move. It is your duty to plant yourself like a tree, to look them in the eye and say, ‘No, you move.'”
~ Sharon Carter, Agent 13 (Captain America: Civil War)

But life does not come with a guide or map, does it? So what if the choices you made were wrong, it is not like you’ll end the time. There are worse things than your wrong choice, but believe me none of your choices are worthless. You end up learning a lot of things from the wrong choices than from the right ones.

So, don’t get used to “what to do” kind of stuff, and just figure out and follow your passion. Life will be much better when you make a choice and make sure your choice makes a difference. It’s always upto you, but sometimes, it’s better to choose wisely.

Do let me know what your views on “Choice” are in the comments section below and don’t forget to like, share this post if you liked it and be sure to subscribe if you don’t want to miss out any of our future posts.

Will be back with another motivational post until then, LIVE yOUR LIFE!

Education vs. Passion! Why not Both!

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Board exams are round the corner and so is the stress. One of the main reasons people take stress is because, they have been living for others. It’s time we realise this and start living for oneself.

People, these days, say they don’t get the feel to study and I keep wondering why does this happen, but to tell the truth, no one can motivate anyone to study.

Why is it so? Because, knowledge is infinite, and in fact the more you think you know, the lesser you actually know.

It is great to learn from every field, but to study, I don’t think that would be a good idea.

Coming back to the boards, we have limited our knowledge to the academic experiences but there are many things happening right now, that is not at all included in the academic system.

Why is it so? Because, this was designed many years ago for a common purpose and for common people, not for a particular person.

So, ask yourself now, what do you love? Space? Then, take a book on astronomy and read it. Because, your academic book, contains only a limited amount of information.

In reality, if you have love for something, you’ll stop at nothing to know more about that thing.

There’s this quote I read somewhere, “You are unique, just like everyone else.”

This might be funny, but it is the truth. You need to look inside to be what you want to be.

“One who looks outside, dreams. One who looks inside, awakes.” ~Carl Jung

As I mentioned earlier, I’m not here to ask you to do anything, I’m here to help you remind your true self.

“You must look within yourself to save yourself from your other self only then will your true self reveal itself.” ~Zuko

To those having their boards and to their parents, one can’t hug their marks to the grave. So smile, learn and lead. Because, there might be a dying artist in the kid who couldn’t score marks and to those guys who make a mess, only for missing a full score by a mark or two, just look through the eyes of a failure. Don’t freak out, keep calm, do what you love and please don’t compare.

Society, why do you bother about it? When you live in a place where you are offered freedom, why do you hesitate to do what you love? When you did something bad, you didn’t bother about them, then why do you think when you are doing something good? So, don’t blame them for your loss.

And finally, I conclude, I feel, people study only under two situations, either they live in a misconception or they want to achieve something.

Make sure, when you come here next time, make sure you are happy and ready to live out loud. Until then, just LIVE yOUR LIFE and Believe and chase down your passion.

You.

“You are a wonderful being. You are the reason that someone smiles. There is nothing that you cannot achieve. So, trust yourself and do what you love to.”
~Amith Chhabria.

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This date, marks one year of this blog. I started this blog to bring out the best in people, but the more people I reached out to, the more I saw them running away from themselves and that’s when I realized, a person can be motivated only when they are ready.

There were many reasons behind this. Some didn’t trust themselves. Some underestimated themselves. Some were jealous of others. Some were filled with fear. Some hated themselves. Some were lost. Some were clueless and what not.

Let me be honest here, everyone in the world has been through this. No one is perfect. Doubts can be cleared. Fear can be conquered. Hate can be faded. The lost can always find a new place to live.

Life is short, but to live it short is not a good idea. If you feel that you are losing, just look around, there would be millions like you. But if you continue your path towards success, you would see a lesser crowd, all continuing their journey to be awesome and when you finally reach the top, you will feel why you had to doubt yourself all along. The reason there are less people at top is just because the rest of the crowd feel that they are unworthy of the position and never try. Some may hate the hard work, but ask any artist who loves to paint, about hard work, and you’ll know that hard work for them is a happy time because it’s their passion. They might need smart work too. If you follow your passion, your work might not seem that hard after all.

No wonder Swami Vivekananda, “You are the creator of your own destiny.”

Your life lies in your very own hands. One cannot expect the egg to hatch as soon as it is laid and it will only hatch when the creature inside is ready. Motivation works the same way. No amount of guidance will work if the person inside is not ready.

If you want help and you are not getting it, then you are not ready for it yet. You’ll get help when you are ready for it. You’ll ask for it.

If nothing is going according to your plan, then it is going according the Lord’s plan. And trust me, His plans are way more exciting than yours.

Never give up. Giving up is easy. That is why people who think they have lost everything, give up. But in reality, if you have nothing to lose, then what’s the use of giving up? That’s why winners never give up.

“Winners never quit and Quitters never win.”
~Vince Lombardi

Be mindful of your thoughts. They define you. Your thoughts may be the reason why you are what you are and may be that is why you are here. To be yourself.

If you are who you are just because someone has asked you to be what you are now, then I feel bad for you. If you really want to be something amazing, just be yourself. Be you because there is no other person in this world like you, and I know you. You are one amazing friend. You are beautiful. You are the best person I’ve connected with and you are here to win and let me tell you one thing: You have the power to be the best.

As Uncle Ben or Benjamin “Ben” Parker once said:
“With great power, comes great responsibility.”

“What it is that you have to do, and what it is that you have to be, that, your soul will tell. Who will be on your side, and who will be against you, that, the time will tell.
But who you are, and what you ought to be, that, you will tell.”
~Amith Chhabria.

Oh and yes, as the topic suggests, I dedicate this post to you, and if you still doubt yourself, just visit this page back and remember that we love you. Will be back with another electrifying post, until then, just LIVE yOUR LIFE.

“There are mysteries to the universe we were never meant to solve. But who we are and why we are here, are not among them. Those answers, we carry inside.”
~Optimus Prime.